90 Day Fiancé: All Of The Signs That Usman Never Respected Kimberly

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Usman “Sojaboy” Umar might have dated Kimberly Menzies on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, but it’s clear to viewers that he never respected Kimberly. Kimberly was called out for her own bad behavior, as she infamously tried to pressure Usman into being intimate with her in a scene that she has since apologized for. However, many viewers believe it was clear from the start that Usman used Kimberly on Before the 90 Days.

He did not have real feelings toward the mother; there are a number of televised instances that support this fan theory. Kimberly and Usman have an unusual relationship in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise. While many cast members enter Before the 90 Days engaged, Usman and Kimberly were not even dating.

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This led to an obsessive Kimberly trying to buy Usman’s love with expensive presents and constant nagging. Though Usman asked Kimberly to be his girlfriend, she was devastated to discover that Usman was dating a woman named Zara while talking to Kimberly as a friend. Unfortunately, that is only one instance of Usman’s disrespect on Before the 90 Days.

When Kimberly met up with Usman in Tanzania, it was clear that he was holding her at arm’s length. Usman’s messages to Kimberly over the past year appeared to suggest he wanted to be with her. However, Usman instead dubbed Kimberly his “potential girlfriend.” Many viewers, including Kimberly’s son Jamal, thought that this was a demanding title. Rather than exploring a potential romance with Kimberly, Usman set her up to earn his affection. This led to Kimberly embarrassing herself as she fawned over Usman, as he refused to return any affection. Even after Usman agreed to date Kimberly,