Remembering my dad through the games we played

polygon.com:

My dad, Joseph, was not an emotionally accessible person — a practiced art he learned from his father, a retired Army colonel, and further refined by his own time in the Army. This made real communication with him tough among my four siblings and me. But we could always talk about games.

While my siblings and I rarely saw eye to eye on anything else with my dad, video games gave us all a reason to come together, find common ground, and occasionally even open up to one another. Even if that just meant looking over his shoulder while he played X-Wing, or Sid Meier’s Pirates!, that was time my dad and I spent together. It didn’t matter that I barely understood how spreadsheets in Railroad Tycoon worked; playing that game was still a small window through which I could relate to my dad.

My dad and his love of games sparked my curiosity in tech and the games industry as a kid, and eventually, drove me to pursue working with video games as a career in my adulthood. He never took me or my siblings on fishing trips, but he had no reservations about taking the time to teach a 7-year-old how to use DOS.

I’ll always remember when we were both banging our heads against a specific mission in X-Wing (historical mission 6 for the Y-Wing, to be exact). After a few failed attempts on my own, my dad saddled up and told me ominously, “Leave the room, and close the door behind you.”

Naturally, I did so, thinking I was in deep shit. But no more than 30 minutes later, I heard singing coming down the stairs. It was my dad, full-on just doing the celebratory Ewok dance from Return of the Jedi. Speechless, I joined him in celebrating our triumph over the Galactic Empire.

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