90 Day Fiancé: Why Kimberly Should Move On From Usman

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In episode 13 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Kimberly Menzies gave Usman “Sojaboy” Umar an ultimatum: either provide a grand gesture to prove his love or she goes home, but most viewers think she should move on, anyway. Kimberly Menzies is a 50-year-old who’s not afraid to say how she feels. After talking to Sojaboy, a famous Nigerian rapper, for about a year, she fell in love and flew to Tanzania to meet him for the first time. However, over the course of their trip, Kimberly has been less than happy with the way the relationship was progressing.

Usman was not ready to make a commitment. For the first half of their trip, he referred to Kimberly as a “potential” girlfriend. Although he stood up for her when his crew made nasty comments, many viewers believed 90DF's Sojaboy wasn’t truly interested in Kimberly. She booked a honeymoon suite, constantly pressured Usman for intimacy, and bought him various expensive gifts, but the two didn’t make their relationship official until after Usman finished his music video. However, he was hiding the truth about his video, which appears to have caused the biggest blowup between the couple.

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When Usman told Kimberly about his song «Zara,» he stated Zara was a name he gave to represent all the women around the world, but that was a lie. After making their relationship official, he revealed Zara is a woman he dated after his ex-wife. Usman  revealed that he loved Zara, but she broke up with him, leading him to write this song for her. However, that wasn’t the only lie. For about eight months out of the year, he was getting to know Kimberly, 90DF's Usman was dating Zara and never mentioned it.