Kim Menzies has taken full responsibility for the way she behaved with Usman Umar, aka Sojaboy, on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Kim has been keen on having sex with Usman since the moment she arrived in Tanzania and even booked a honeymoon suite for it. However, Usman told her that since she’s just his “potential” girlfriend, they wouldn’t be getting intimate. By failing to grasp Usman’s request and disrespecting him by repeatedly badgering him for sex in episode 8, Kim made viewers feel uncomfortable. However, there are some fans who have supposedly started bullying Kim and are indulging in body shaming in her DMs.
There are several reasons why 90 Day Fiancé fans think Kim and Usman have a fake storyline. Even Usman’s ex-wife Lisa Hamme has revealed that Kim was a second option for Usman, who was supposed to be on the show with a woman named Zara. But Kim and Usman were talking to each other online for a whole year, which gave the San Diego woman confidence to pressure Usman into having sex. Her nightie with printed hearts and even the MacBook and PS5 failed to impress Usman when she finally used her son Jamal as a means to coerce Usman into sleeping with her. This is what disgusted fans the most, and some even asked why TLC included these Kim-Usman scenes in the drama-filled episode.
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Meanwhile, Kim posted an Instagram Story later to address the fiasco and how she’s been dealing with the online criticism since. “So I am aware that last night’s episode put me into a very negative light,” wrote Kim. She added that she has “no excuses” and just has to “take the negativity.” Interestingly, Kim didn’t blame Usman's coercion and manipulation
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